My Thoughts On...

I have decided to start a new segment on "Katie's Hyper Thoughts."  It's called, "My Thoughts On..."  And then, I will give you my thoughts on a certain topic.  You can choose topics for me to "think" on if you do so desire.
My first topic shouldn't shock too many people, because I am a teenage girl, who has liked more guys than she is old...It's really weird.
LOVE!  So, My Thoughts On...LOVE!  The first My Thoughts On episode...Of sorts.
Okay, so, I like love and all, but I must admit it can be confusing.  I mean, sure, you like the guy, (so maybe it isn't love, but I will include that in the love category) but you don't know how to act or react.
See, I know this one girl (no names mentioned, and if anyone knows who I'm talking about...KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT AND YOUR FINGERS STILL!  Understand?)  She likes this guy, and she thinks that he might like her, and there's this thing coming up, and she could ask him to go with her, but she's too scared that he doesn't really like her.
And then there's where you add the girl who likes the same guy as you do, or at least dislikes you liking him, and the thought of him liking you.
See, this same girl likes to be near the guy she likes, but this other girl actually pushed her away to stand next to him.  I understand how complex that can be.
And then you have the jealous friend factor, where a friend of the opposite sex of the guy you like (so therefore a gal pal) is upset because you like the guy and the guy likes you, and they probably just don't want the guy to get hurt.
Hopefully it's that, and not that they hate your guts.
See, so my first thought on love is that it's confusing.
Actually, forget about all the different scenarios, I'll give you those in a little bit.
Here's what I think about love.  Love can be painful, love can be beautiful, and amazing, love is needed, because a person without love can easily grow cold and mean, in order to love you have to trust the person that you claim to love.  Like the girl I mentioned...She has trust issues, and she's a little scared to trust the guy, even though she likes him.  And no she doesn't like him for his looks, although I myself don't think he's bad looking.
Love shouldn't be based on what they can give you, or how much moolah they have, or their looks.  You ought to base it on their personality, and their relationship with God.
It's not wrong to love someone who obviously has issues, although depending on those issues, you may not want to pursue a relationship with them.  It might not be wise, and they could drag you down the same path that they're on.
There've actually been times when I haven't seen the point in love, at least not for me...But I think I'm making my way back to actually being able to love.  I hope I am.
So, anyway, there are my thoughts on love!
Oh, and my friend (who has requested to be called Emmiline, as she is too nervous about the guy she likes finding my blog of reading this) would like to know if anyone has advice for her.
Okay, the same friend as above actually...She likes this guy, and suspects that he might like her, and she's talked to him a lot, and there's this thing going on.  She kind of wants to ask him to go to it with her, but she's nervous.  Should she wait and see if the guy will ask her, or should she try to be bold and ask him to go with her?
Any advice would be very welcome.  You can comment it, or message it to me on facebook if I've got you added on facebook.
Oh yeah, she's also 14, and isn't sure if she'd be asking him to go as her boyfriend, or just a friend, but more than likely a friend that you like as more than a friend.
I'm a little worried that her and that guy are gonna end up dancing around each other, to try to avoid from getting hurt.
Okay, thank you!
~Katie :)