Nanu-Nanu

Okay, so I've met Mork and Mindy (in other words, a TV show called Mork and Mindy,) and I like it!  It's really cool!  It's pretty awesome, I really like it.  One of the things Mork says a lot is "Nanu nanu," it's basically his hello.
One thing I don't understand is why a girl can't be friends with a guy without everyone saying they're soooo in love, and saying they're dating, and stuff like that.  It doesn't make sense.  A guy and a girl can be good friends, without having romantic attractions toward one another.
I mean, seriously, two girls are friends, and everyone just thinks they're friends.  I mean, they can even hug each other, and say they love each other and stuff like that, and people just think they're friends.  Two guys can be friends without people thinking they're in love....unless they hug and tell each other they love each other....at least the way girls do.
But a guy and a girl can be best friends, without hugging, without saying "I love you," and yet they're so definitely madly in love.
I have two close guy friends.  Neither of which I'm dating.  Neither of which I'm madly in love with.  Neither of which I dream about–okay, I have dreams about them sometimes, but not the romantic kind.  I have weird dreams about being related to them...but that's it.– yet people say we're in love.
For example, one of my friends who lives in the town I used to live in, my family knows, and they think that I need to marry him, and bring him into the family.  He's my friend.  Just my friend.  And I honestly don't think I could survive a relationship with him...we'd clash too much.  Honestly, he infuriates me sometimes...like clashing, like...not a good relationship.
Then, I have another friend, who goes to school with me, and our classmates, and even some of the teachers say we're madly in love, flirt all the time–load of crap–and stuff like that.  I could maybe handle a relationship with him, but it's highly doubtful, because he really gets on my nerves.  There's a reason I punch him.  But we don't clash as much as the other guy and I.
Plus, I can go to one of them if I'm having trouble with one thing, and another if I'm having trouble with a different issue.
For one of them...we'll just put his initials KJN, I can go to him if I need help with something to write, and if I'm in a fantasy mood, we can talk fantasy all day long.  I know he's my biggest book fan....  I don't care what my family says...but KJN is really my biggest fan.  He gives me suggestions that I know I'll never use, and suggestions that are actually pretty good ideas....I've also promised that when I make my book into a movie he can be in the movie.  If you wanna buy the book: Paperback, Kindle edition
Now the other guy, again, we'll refer to him by his initials, GWJ...whoa, his initials look cool.  *tilts head to side like puppy and stares fascinated*  And KJN's initials look like KJV. (or King James Version)  *Tilts head to normal position* no more fascination with initials.
Okay, anyway, GWJ has also been there for me...a lot.  He's one of the first people I go to if I have a major problem.  Especially if it involves guys.  He's really really super annoying, but I know that if I have a serious issue he'll take the time to listen.  I think he feels the same way about me.  Ya know, he can talk to me about anything.
I also go to him for homework help sometimes...then again, I also go to KJN for help.  That's the upside to being behind in math.  If you can't get ahold of your math teacher, you can just call two of your friends who have gone through Algebra 1 already!  Awesome, yes?
I guess I also tend to talk to GWJ more than KJN, because I see him at school everyday, but KJN I rarely see anymore, and he's not one of those people you can call just to say hi, and then talk for an hour or so...GWJ is...that's why I call him while I rollerblade.
But see, I can talk to either one about a variety of things.
However...when it comes to straight up boy-talk...you know what I mean girls...when you talk about the guys you're in love with, and all that lovely stuff.
If I talk to KJN about it...he kinda makes fun of me, and acts all...yeah...I don't really know how to describe it...I can kind of talk to GWJ about it...but I kind of think he feels a little awkward when I do...but anyway, when it comes to guy talk, I got my friend that is a GIRL to talk to about them.
Ahh yes...it's a wonder she still loves me.  Lots and lots of guy talk.  *giggles giddily*
You know, I came readily prepared with a real topic, but this kinda took over, and now I'm off!
Until next time....
Nanu nanu.
~Katie :)